tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2346661578066937392023-11-16T01:30:55.416-06:00a surrogate's journeyJuliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-17561026903649398932014-01-17T13:34:00.000-06:002014-01-17T13:34:03.870-06:009 months post delivery AND BIG NEWS!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
It's been a long time since I've updated! B is now 9 months old! My kids and I went and visited him and his siblings and mama last weekend. It was great seeing them! B was so much fun, bouncing around and all excited when we were "talking". He's precious and I absolutely love being able to see him with his family! </div>
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AND for some big news......<br />I'M PREGNANT! (again!) This time its mine and my husbands, and we are so excited that we are adding our 3rd (and last) little one to our family!<br /></div>
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This is how we announced our family would be growing by two feet!</div>
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Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-73243309106299174342013-08-15T22:19:00.002-05:002013-08-15T22:23:37.113-05:004.5 months later<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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This cutie is 4.5 months old now! Sometimes it seems a little surreal that I carried him, although I'm still trying to shed the last few extra pounds of baby weight. I also was on steroids for about a month and a half, so I think that had some to do with why I weighed the most I ever have!<br />
I still text with K pretty often, and am hoping we can get together again in the next few weeks. <br />
Here's a few pics from our previous get-togethers.<br />
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(And yes, Conner attends these get-togethers too, but he's too busy running around with B's older siblings to take a pic!)<br />
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<br />Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-17957964311214396442013-08-15T21:46:00.001-05:002013-08-15T21:49:20.525-05:00SlideshowI made this a while back but forgot to share it-<br />
<a href="http://www.smilebox.com/playBlog/4d7a63324e5445354d7a4d3d0d0a&blogview=true">http://www.smilebox.com/playBlog/4d7a63324e5445354d7a4d3d0d0a&blogview=true</a>Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-78094402223925189172013-05-28T22:03:00.001-05:002013-05-29T21:30:29.336-05:00Inquiring MindsHere are the answers to the questions I've received lately:<br />
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<em><strong>H</strong></em><em><strong>ow difficult/or not was it to send him home with his parents? Even though you know the whole time this is a gift you are giving to someone, and its not your baby, does the instinct to be mom and cuddle and care for him come about?</strong></em><br />
This one is really hard to explain! Mostly, it wasn't difficult for me to see him go with his parents because that's where he belongs. The hard part of saying goodbye for me, was that the family lives a few hours away, and I knew I would be missing them. (Especially K, since I had been seeing her once a week for a while!) Being in hospital, having delivered a baby, going through surgery, hanging out playing games and watching TV in the hospital room with my husband, were the things that made it "strange", because we have been through those things when we had our children, and were in the same hospital with our last child. I was also surprised with my husbands reactions. For example, he was glad we didn't get my tubes tied, which was something we discussed several times before the c section. It brought up feelings in both of us about missing ours being babies. (But surprisingly, the "baby fever" wasn't all that severe, although we still haven't decided if we will have another later on.) The instinct to cuddle a baby is always there for me, and as much as I do truly LOVE baby B, I never felt like his mom.<br />
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another question I got along the same lines: <em><strong>W<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id=".reactRoot[483].[1][4][1]{comment10151491721057872_25664679}.0.[1].0.[1].0.[0].[0][2]"><span id=".reactRoot[483].[1][4][1]{comment10151491721057872_25664679}.0.[1].0.[1].0.[0].[0][2].0"><span id=".reactRoot[483].[1][4][1]{comment10151491721057872_25664679}.0.[1].0.[1].0.[0].[0][2].0.[0]">as it emotionally hard carrying the child knowing you were not taking him home with you?</span></span></span></strong></em><br />
<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}">Not really. I did get attached to him but it felt like a different attachment the entire pregnancy than it did with my own. I loved thinking about him getting to "experience" things with us especially things I knew would be similar to what he would experience with his family, or if his mom would have been able to carry him. I loved when he would dance around during church services, and so far I'd say thats been the only times since delivery that I kinda miss being pregnant.</span><br />
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><em><strong>I want to be a surrogate, where do I start?</strong></em></span><br />
<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"></span>The first place to start is with research. Look up surrogacy laws for your state, research the medical process. Also one of the first things to do is decided if you would like to be a traditional surrogate, or gestational surrogate. A traditional surrogate uses her own eggs, and a gestational surrogate (like me) is a carrier whom is not genetically related to the baby/babies. Also you need to decide if you would prefer using an agency, or going "independently". There are pros and cons to each route, but I choose an agency because I don't trust myself to be organized and on top of things enough to make sure I didn't miss anything. If you decide an agency is the best route, I HIGHLY recommend Fertility Resources of Houston. They were exactly what I wanted from an agency, professional AND personal. If you are considering starting the process, start gathering your medical records because that could end up taking a while. Here are some sites with helpful information:<br />
<a href="http://allthingssurrogacy.org/">http://allthingssurrogacy.org/</a><br />
<a href="http://www.surromomsonline.com/support/forum.php">http://www.surromomsonline.com/support/forum.php</a><br />
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<em><strong>I have just recently decided to become a gestational carrier. I am not yet matched, but I was wondering if you could tell me more about the matching process and how you knew your IP's were "the one"? And after matching can you tell me what to expect as far as the medical screening and psych screening?</strong></em><br />
Every agency and clinic is a little different, but for me I did the psych screening before matching, and the medical screening afterwards. The psychological evaluation consisted of my husband and I meeting with a social worker, she went over alot of things and is very involved in the world of fertility. I also had to do a 600 question inventory called the "MMPI" which screens for personality disorders. It asks some very strange questions but it's not too bad. The medical screening for me was a long visit with an RE (reproductive endocrinologist) during which we did a medical history review, blood work, a mock transfer, and a saline sonogram. I was lucky to have that all done in one visit, many times it takes 2 or more office visits.<br />
The matching process one is very personal to me, and is similar to dating! The first couple I was told about sounded nice, but they weren't married which bothered me since I didn't want to be on the baby's birth certificate as "mom" even for a few days. I was unsure if I even wanted to set up a match meeting with them. Very shortly after, my agency coordinator called me and told me about K and M. They had previously been matched but it didn't work out, so they were looking again. I immediately got butterflies hearing about them and knew I wanted to meet them. That night, we scheduled a meeting. When we drove to meet them, I told my husband to "make me" wait a day before saying yes or no. But on the way home, we both knew it was a yes! Hours after meeting them we decided to call and tell the coordinator "YES" and K and M had done the same! We just felt so comfortable after talking to them for a couple of hours, and we trusted our hearts.<br />
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><em><strong>How did Olivia react when you didn't come home with a baby? & Conner too but he's younger, so not sure how much he understood.</strong></em></span><br />
<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"></span>Yes, Conner just turned two so he didn't seem to care either way. He has been only ever so slightly interested (for a couple of seconds) the times he's seen B. Olivia, however, understood very well from the beginning. I did worry because once toward the end of the pregnancy she hugged my belly and said something like "our baby B." I corrected her and she said "I meant ours to hug." I tried to talk about K and M anytime the pregnancy or baby was mentioned, and I think that helped alot! When people would ask her if she was getting a brother or sister she would say something like "Conner's my baby brother, this one isn't ours." But she did great at the hospital and when we came home. I show her pictures when K sends them, and we've seen them a couple times since delivery. (She's WAY more interested in B's big siblings than B when we get together!) When it came time to getting back to normal, she did really well. She was great about remembering to be careful because of the surgery. One day at the park a couple weeks after delivery, another kid overheard me telling her I couldn't push her on the merry-go-round, and asked Olivia "why?" In words wise beyond her years, I heard her explain that her mommy just had a baby but he isn't our baby, that mommy is a surrogate, and the doctor had to cut her to get him out. I was about to burst with pride hearing her. Kids are amazing at understanding and accepting things just as they are!<br />
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><em><strong>How difficult is the legal part of surrogacy?</strong></em></span><br />
This will change depending on several factors. But overall, if you live in a surrogacy-friendly state like Texas, its rather easy. Basically, the contract is drawn up by the parents lawyer, then the surrogate and her lawyer reviews and makes changes if necessary. This contract protects the surrogate and parents and discusses several preferences by each party. Once everyone likes the contract, it is signed and the embryo transfer can happen. The next legal step is custody, which is also easy in Texas. There is a Pre-Birth Order which gets signed by a judge during the pregnancy and deems the parents as the legal guardians and ensures they are listed on the birth certificate. This only applies to straight, married couples. If a surrogate carries for a gay couple, or a single man or woman, then these rules change and the surrogate is listed as the mother, and must reliquish her rights and the parent(s) then adopt.<br />
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id=".reactRoot[928].[1][4][1]{comment10151491721057872_25665383}.0.[1].0.[1].0.[0].[0][2]"><span id=".reactRoot[928].[1][4][1]{comment10151491721057872_25665383}.0.[1].0.[1].0.[0].[0][2].0"><span id=".reactRoot[928].[1][4][1]{comment10151491721057872_25665383}.0.[1].0.[1].0.[0].[0][2].0.[0]"><em><strong>Did you nurse or pump for the baby at all? Did the mother prepare so that she could nurse the baby?</strong></em></span></span></span><br />
<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}">I started pumping for him a few hours after delivery. There wasn't enough for him to take much home when we left the hospital, but my milk came in that weekend and I shipped to them. Yesterday was his 2 month birthday and I still haven't stopped pumping, although the last two days I've only pumped in the morning and at night (so twice a day.) I keep saying I want to stop but to me its emotionally difficult to stop for some reason. Pumping is ALOT of work though, so I'm thankful now that I'm able to only do it twice a day without much pain. I never nursed him. I wasn't entirely opposed to it if necessary, but prefered to pump, and it was never discussed. His mother was advised not to try to induce lactation because of the medications it would require and how that would effect her medical problems. She was able to nurse her other children and is very thankful that B is able to get breastmilk as well for now.</span><br />
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This is a tough one! Honestly, everything went so well for the most part. Pumping has hard its hard times. Recovering from major surgery, although my recovery went well, was difficult at times because without a baby around, its easy for myself and my family to forget I needed to be taking it easy. I had emotional breakdown the day we came home after my husband and I realized I physically couldn't do what we were all used to me doing around the house! Aside from the post delivery stuff, I'd say the autoimmune disorder I developed was the hardest thing. My pregnacy was nearly perfect besides that. It was the most miserable rash. I itched all over and was up in the middle of the night taking baths in vinegar water, trying multiple remedies all the time. I was relieved to get a diagnosis, but also sad that its something that I'll always "have", and the rash could potentially flare up again. If it does though, I know what I need to do to control it.<br />
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Thanks for all the questions, hope this helps! If anyone has any more questions, I'll edit them in later!Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-12702719820943175132013-05-21T09:59:00.001-05:002013-05-21T09:59:12.816-05:00Q&AI'm thinking about doing a Q&A post, so if you have any questions please post them in the comments.Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-51038525529694904812013-05-16T21:53:00.001-05:002013-05-17T06:00:55.221-05:00Birth story!I'm sorry I'm so late getting the blog caught up!<br>
The day before the scheduled c section was a busy one for me. I had to get everything packed up for my kids to go stay at my parents for a few nights, then had to take my car to the dealership (repair work since I got rear-ended the week before). My mom met me up there and took me to the hospital to do pre-surgery labs. Mike picked me up on his way home from work, and we had to get our dogs to my aunt so she could take care of them for a few days. There was lots of excitement that night but still really no anxiety. I talked to K on the phone and they were also very busy and SO excited! Due to a convention going on here, they were unable to book a hotel room for the night before, so they had to leave their house around 1am to make it for our 6am check-in. Mike and I woke up early and made sure we had everything then headed out.<br>
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We got to the hospital just minutes before M and K. We all went to L&D and got checked in.<br>
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After getting some basic information, we went back to the "recovery" room, which is also where I prepped for surgery. The nurses went over what to expect and hooked me up to monitors. (I actually was having fairly regular contractions, so B might have choosen that birthdate even if we didnt!) K and M and Mike all kept me company. The nurses were very sweet but had me scared that we wouldn't be allowed more than one in the operating room (which is the "standard"). After a while, the anesthesiologist (Dr. O) showed up. I noticed her jacket and pointed her out to K and my husband Mike, who then proceeded to tell her she looked too young to be an anesthesiologist! I later joked that his "flirting" helped us out, because she let both he and K join me in the OR!! (It's always ultimately up to the anesthesiologist to allow more than one.) I was sooo happy and relieved when she said yes, although I had a good feeling about it the whole time. After all the prep for the OR, and blood draw for cord blood banking, my OB Dr Reeves said it was time to head to the OR. Just then I finally got nervous. It was really just the spinal that was making me nervous. I'd never had a "spinal", although I'd had epidurals with my kids, spinals are slightly different. I think not being in active labor during a needle going into your back makes you more alert as to how scary that is! For the spinal, no one but Dr. O and Dr. Reeves would be in there, K and Mike had to wait outside in the hall. Dr Reeves realized how nervous the spinal was making me and struck up a conversation about my freshley manicured toenails in "cajun shrimp" color. Yet another reason I love my OB! The spinal was quick and easy and I was soon laying on my back, the curtain placed across my chest, and my husband and K came in. Mike sat near my head and K stood next to him. Dr Reeves had a nurse to assist him and there was also a nursing student in there standing to the side to watch her first c-section. I was alert during my c-section with Conner, but I seemed much more at ease and alert this time around, I suppose because it was planned. I remember talking to Mike and Dr O. We all guessed B's weight just before he was born. I don't remember Mike's and K's guesses, but I guessed 9lb1oz which was my birth weight and B's youngest big sister's also. I also asked if Dr. Reeves had started yet just moments before B came out! He was born at 7:23AM which I thought was neat because my husbands date of birth is 7/23. He was 9lbs 5oz, and I could tell by a glance he was a chunky baby before I even heard the weight! I watched K as the nurse brought B to be weighed and cleaned, she was overjoyed! I began to tear up as she thanked Mike and she was taking lots of pictures. My heart was nearly exploding with joy and pride! It had all led up to this precious moment!<br>
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Once B was born and cleaned up, he and his mom went to the recovery room while M stayed behind I was stitched up. I remember asking Dr. Reeves to stitch me up carefully, because I "want to use my uterus again", and not to tie my tubes. I also asked Mike to take a picture of the placenta since I never saw it with my own kids, and I talked to Dr. O's about her new baby she had 3 months prior. I was very talkative during the whole surgery for some reason! On the way out of the OR, Dr Reeves and one of the nurses showed me the placenta and pointed out the sac B was in. I went to the recovery room to join K and B, who were later joined by M (daddy) and then the siblings tooks turns coming in. I was itching like crazy so I was given Benadryl. K and M's oldest daughter was there while B got his first sponge bath, and she walked to my bed and said "Thank you Ms Julie for carrying him!" Oh my goodness, another heart-melting moment! She's 10 and no one had asked her to say that, just geniune gratefulness from a sweet big sister!<br>
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After nearly 2 hours in the recovery room, it was time for us to go to our rooms we would be in the rest of our stay. Once K got her family settled in their room, they came over to visit me, Mike and our kids (my mom brought them up there.) She had got all of our kids adorable embroidered shirts, and also got them all gifts from B. So sweet!! She also brought me a wonderful basket full of snacks, a belly bandit (yay! that thing has been amazing!), stretch mark cream (also amazing!), and some lovely personal gifts.<br>
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I started pumping for B within a few hours after delivery, and although he had formula for a bit, I have been able to provide him with breastmilk for the most part since delivery. (I am seven weeks post partum as I write this.) Pumping has its difficult moments (to include mastitis and antibiotics) but I think it has helped me tremendously to physically heal and to have a great "ending" emotionally to this journey. I'm thinking I'll be ready to stop pumping in a couple more weeks. It does take away a bit from my family in time, and sure does add to dishes to be cleaned! ha! But I'm so glad to have been able to pump as much as I have! I feel like its a special gift for B! I know I'll probably be a little sad when I stop, so I'm not putting a real time limit on it, just going to stop when I feel like it.<br>
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My recovery has been wonderful! I still have some minor abdominal pain (from my awesome OB doing a bit of repair work on those muscles!), but pain free in the incision site. I had my 6 week check up last week and all is well!<br>
B has been doing great! He more than surpassed his birth weight sooner than expected! I have seen him and his family twice since leaving the hospital and he's so precious!<br>
I do miss seeing K every week like we were for those last several weeks! But I'm so happy with the way we've become so close. She's practically family in my eyes now!<br>
This experience has been so amazing! I feel like God specifically laid this on my heart, and He has had his hand on our journey throughout the journey.Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-56320521077033139102013-04-05T13:30:00.000-05:002013-04-05T13:30:01.802-05:00The little one has arrived!I'm going to sit and write the whole birth story soon, but just wanted to do a quick update for now!<br />"B" arrived on Wednesday March 27th at 7:23AM. The adorable bundle of joy weighed in at 9lbs 5oz and was 21 inches long. His parents are thrilled, he is perfect, and I'm recovering well.<br />
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Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-10671267747507878152013-03-13T21:15:00.002-05:002013-03-13T21:25:17.648-05:0014 days left!I can't believe how close we are now! Two weeks from today I'll be delivering baby boy "B" to his family! I'm starting to get excited, but I think since I'm not to that really uncomfortable stage yet it doesn't feel like its as close as it is. Things have been going really well again now that my rash is under control. The diagnosis was actually changed to "pemphigoid gestationis" (verified by biopsy) which is a rare pregnancy related autoimmune disease. My OB had me start oral steroids and now I'm down to a very low daily dose. This, along with a cream, and antihistimines, has helped tremendously. I still itch throughout the day, but its nothing compared to what it was like a few weeks ago. My OB isn't very concerned about it causing problems and also said it shouldn't prevent me from being pregnant again, although it could happen again.<br />
I had a bit of a "maybe in labor" scare over the weekend and went and got checked at the hospital. I was having mild contractions picked up by the machine ever 3-5 minutes but they were hardly noticable. The bag of waters was intact (and was felt "bulging") and no dilation. I'm thinking we will make it to our section date of the 27th. <br />
Tuesday I had an OB appointment, which K and also my sister Lacey came to. I was glad K and my sister finally got to meet, and we had a great time at a local baby store after the appointment. The OB visit went well, my belly is measuring as it should be and all is well. B's heartrate was 141, which is about what it has been for several weeks now.<br />
K texted me later and said that her boys were so upset that she didn't bring B home with her! They are so ready to welcome their baby brother! I love it!<br />
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Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-79868995803164414522013-02-21T11:44:00.002-06:002013-02-22T20:25:59.952-06:0034 weeksYesterday I had an OB appointment and sonogram. K wasn't able to make it to this one, but both K and M are planning to come to our next appointment Tuesday. The sonogram went well, and B was head down, but "oblique", he was laying diagonally across my abdomen, and facing out! He measured 6lbs 13oz, which is pretty large since average for 34 weeks is 4.75lbs! We will do another sono next week to see if these measurements were just "off" for some reason, and to check fluid again (which was fine this week.) <br />
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Dr Reeves looked at my rash again and advised me to see a dermatologist as soon as possible. Since I had class yesterday afternoon, K called the dermotology office for me and got me an appointment this morning. I brought my munchkins with me and they did so well during the appointment :) Dr H says he believes it is PUPPPs, although its definitely not a "textbook case." He have me some samples of a cream and wrote me a prescription to fill if its helping. He also suggested talking to Dr Reeves about an antihistimine to help relieve the itching. It likely won't go away until a week or so after delivery. It certainly is an aweful itch and the best relief seems to be when I'm in the bath or shower. Luckily it doesn't itch ALL day long, it comes and goes, but when it itches, it is very irritating!Here is some info about PUPPP (Pruritic Urticarial Papules and Plaques of Pregnancy)<br />
<a href="http://dermatology.about.com/cs/pregnancy/a/puppp.htm">http://dermatology.about.com/cs/pregnancy/a/puppp.htm</a><br />
Other than that, the pregnancy is going perfectly! I can't believe we are less than 5 weeks from delivery now!Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-33882647858252920572013-02-16T21:56:00.002-06:002013-02-16T21:56:21.932-06:0033 weeksWell little "B" cooperated for his second 3D sonogram! I was sad that his family missed it, but glad the tech was able to get some great shots this time!<br />
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He still has been having the hiccups alot, at least a few times every day!<br />
The pregnancy has been going well. We had an appointment February 7th, measuring right on track. The C section has been scheduled for March 27th. After our appointment, K and I met Wendy and Denise at the hospital and met with the head nurse there to discuss how we wanted everything to go, and for a quick tour. We also pre-registered and met with the birth certificate worker. Everything is good to go for the big day! I am so pleased with the hospital, they were wonderful when I had my son there, and I anticipate everything will go smoothly with this delivery and recovery. It made it seem like we are getting so close to the end to go and have that meeting. We still have a little over 5 weeks from now, I'm sure part of it will fly by but it seems to fluctuate with how fast and slow different parts of this pregnancy has felt. It was so great to get to spend time with K again, and she'll be here Wednesday for our next appointment too. I'm so glad she's been able to come to nearly every appointment despite the drive.<br />
Not long after the appointment I started noticing bumps on my belly. In a few days there were quite a bit and it was itching so bad. I went in on Wednesday the 13th to have Dr Reeves look at it. Lo and behold, I have poison ivy! He put me on a med pack and its stopped spreading. Its looking better but still itches quite a bit. K suggested calamine lotion and I've been using that alot the last couple of days too. <br />According to babycenter.com, B weighs as much as a pineapple, just over 4 pounds, and is over 17 inches long.<br />
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Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-38128729870663365732013-01-26T17:44:00.001-06:002013-01-26T17:44:45.389-06:00Quick updateK and M and all their little ones came into town Thursday for an appointment. The visit with the doctor went well. B was practically turning flips to avoid us hearing his heartbeat but we finally got a couple seconds here and there! We could see him moving around, pretty funny! We discussed the c section again, and looks like March 28 will be the big day, as long as I'm not showing any signs of labor. After the dr visit, we all gathered into the sonogram room for a 3d ultrasound. It was great to catch a couple glimpses of B but the tech really couldn't get a good clear shot. When his hands weren't covering his face, he had his face right up against the placenta, making it impossible to get a clear view. I was pretty disappointed since the whole family was there to see him, but that's just how it goes sometimes! We are going back in on Monday to try again, and K will be coming alone most likely. Fingers crossed we get a better look this time! From the little bit we saw, you can already see similarities with his siblings! Very cool!Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-29416822383501813512013-01-17T21:29:00.000-06:002013-01-17T22:10:14.657-06:0029 weeksToday marks 29 weeks! Baby boy (I'll call him "B") has the hiccups right now, and has been having them alot since I first felt them about a week or two ago. According to babycenter.com, he is around 15 inches long, and about 2.5 pounds. Yesterday I did the glucose lab, and today I got the call that all is good with my insulin and iron levels. I talk to K today and she and the family are very excited about our 3-D sonogram next week! I can't wait! K and M and their oldest 3 children will be attending the appointment. They will be bringing a sitter for their youngest, and my kids and mom will likely be keeping them company during our appointment. This week we submitted all the paperwork to insure K and M go directly on "B"s birth certificate, and if all that is done in time, we will go to the hospital after our appointment Thursday to get everything prepared! I can't believe we're only about 10 weeks away from delivery! I'm so thankful that this pregnancy has treated me as well as my others, and so far I haven't even been having the hip pain I had in my pregnancies with my kids. I have been having those fun Braxton Hicks contractions in the evenings, just as I did while pregnant with my son. I actually kinda enjoy them especially since I won't be laboring with this delivery. (Not sure if that makes sense to many, but it does to me!)<br />
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A couple weeks ago, K and I decided to get together for lunch and have all the kids finally meet! (And my first time to meet their older kids.) It was alot of fun! We went to Cheddar's for lunch, then went to the Ellen Trout Zoo in Lufkin. The kids all had a blast and the zoo was really nice. I loved seeing the kids together! It was pretty cute when we first got seated at the restaurant, one of the boys said "Hey! You have our baby in there!" when he noticed my belly. Then when it was time to leave the boys wanted to take B home with them. Almost, but he needs to grow a bit more!<br />
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<br />Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-33474816364420671712012-12-21T13:00:00.001-06:002012-12-28T22:37:08.804-06:0025 weeksYesterday marked 25 weeks! Moving right along! K came into town for a regular OB appointment on Monday. She came by the house to pick me up, and she brought some Christmas presents for the kids and each of them a shirt from their family trip to Disney world! So sweet and the kids love the doll and pirate ship!<br />
At the office, we ended up having to wait a while. Two of the ladies from the agency met us up there and kept us company in the waiting room. Everything looked good with my health and the baby's. I am a tad concerned with my recent weight gain (6 pounds since the last appointment!) but my doctor isn't so I suppose I'm doing good! Baby's heart rate was 141 this time. He was kicking around while the nurse was doing the Doppler, but sadly K didn't get to feel him this visit. In a few weeks I will go in just for the glucose lab (diabetes screen), then on January 24 K and M (and probably one or more of baby's big siblings) will be able to come to the next appointment which will include a 3-D ultrasound! How fun! I had one done during my first pregnancy and it was so neat! I think it will be really special for baby's family to get to "see" him before he's born! Oh and they have decided on a first name! Yay! <br />
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Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-1718364042335493472012-11-18T11:01:00.002-06:002012-11-18T11:01:33.124-06:0020 weeksThursday marked 20 weeks! The baby has been moving and I think we're <em>almost </em>to the point of feeling his movements from the outside of my belly! I can still tell the difference though with the anterior placenta (as opposed to with my kids, posterior placentas). My next OB appointment is tomorrow, and K may not make it to this one if she doesn't find a sitter for the kids. But hopefully the next time I see her she will get to feel her little one's kicks!<br />
I woke up early Friday morning sick and it continued throughout the day. I started having sharp cramps that felt like contractions to me during the day so I called my OBs on call line and he got back to me and said to only drink water, Sprite, and Ginger-ale, no food, for at least 24 hours. He said that cramps and even contractions are common when you are sick and dehydrated, but if they got severe or persisted to go in to L&D at the hospital. He said if the cramps had stopped within the 24 hours that I could switch to the BRAT diet. (Bananas, rice, applesauce, toast). It was a little scary having the sharp contractions, but they were up higher only, and I knew everything would be okay. I checked the baby's heartbeat and continued to feel him moving, so besides feeling terrible, I was at peace. Thankfully this morning I'm feeling almost 100% better and my appetite is back full force, just a little weak from not eating much the last two days.<br />
Here is a picture from Thursday. The left side of the picture is from babycenter.com.<br />K & M's baby is about 10 inches long from head to heel now; and is producing meconium which will accumulte in his intestines until he's here and makes that first poopy diaper, which his wonderful parents will be so happy to change!<br />
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Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-21953701455931705412012-11-06T11:13:00.001-06:002012-11-06T11:13:10.810-06:00Sono pictureThis is from the last appointment, baby was sucking his thumb in the bottom picture, so cute. K&M have now shared the news with their family and friends, and their kids are so excited of course!<br />
I started feeling some movement two days ago, they're still subtle but I am glad to feel the kicks/stretches!<div class="separator"style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTiowimhil2TF34tCfZx0sbpjnvBL95iKJdHKRajkcFELrsf5Wwo842z5uXLdQT3_YCv7mnIRSYy6gG3eWOYiLw_nqMomDbBdawyKKwh5KWXvQKOGTIS5pLdxWZ8Plkw-iElkBKC56xLML/s640/blogger-image-1075723484.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTiowimhil2TF34tCfZx0sbpjnvBL95iKJdHKRajkcFELrsf5Wwo842z5uXLdQT3_YCv7mnIRSYy6gG3eWOYiLw_nqMomDbBdawyKKwh5KWXvQKOGTIS5pLdxWZ8Plkw-iElkBKC56xLML/s640/blogger-image-1075723484.jpg" /></a></div>Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-67290666052068896892012-10-29T22:49:00.000-05:002012-11-30T12:41:17.680-06:0017.5 weeksToday K & M drove down for an appointment, which included the anatomy sonogram. We found out baby is a boy! They planned on telling the big siblings tonight about the baby, then later do a gender reveal for them with balloons in a box! Funny thing is, although they still did not know about the pregnancy and soon-to-be sibling, one of the boys recently requested "a baby brother that is a boy". So cute! Although big sister argued she'd prefer another little sister! I'm sure either way all four big siblings will be so excited to welcome their baby brother in five months!<br />
We also found out at the appointment that the placenta is on top (anterior) which is what I was suspecting since I have yet to feel any for-sure fetal movements. It still may be a few more weeks before I can feel anything because of this. Its fairly common and shouldn't cause any issues with the pregnancy or delivery.<br />
When Dr Reeves was adjusting the due date back to April 4th, (it had somehow got changed in the computer to April 2) he said March 28th would be when he would recommend scheduling the repeat c-section for! That will be on Olivia's 4th birthday! I think that would be so special if it works out to have him on that day! One of the happiest days of my life, and now might be the day I deliver a family's bundle of joy to them! Olivia was thrilled to hear this news!<br />
The baby was measuring 18 weeks today (will be 18 weeks on Thursday this week), and my uterus is measuring 23cm, big I know!<br />
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Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-89533897407561872942012-10-18T22:11:00.001-05:002012-10-19T13:54:59.216-05:0016 weeksTuesday night I started getting worried that I hadn't felt the baby's movements yet. I couldn't remember when I felt Olivia and Conner's first flutters, so I tried looking back through old emails and such, and found I had probably felt Olivia around 18 weeks, and no clue about Conner. Once I got myself worrying it was hard to shake, so I told Mike yesterday morning that I was worried and was going to call my doctor and see if I could go in for a quick heartbeat check. I let K know and she was praying and nervous too. I think we both still felt that everything was okay, but better to check and have peace of mind. I called and got an appointment for 2:30, and me and the kids headed to my moms house to visit my nephew who was visiting. The kids stayed while I went to the appointment. Once there, the nurse did the routine checks and then used the doppler to find the baby's heartbeat. It felt like it took sooo long to find, but once she caught it for a split second we heard why. The baby must have been turning flips because we could hear the commotion. He/she then calmed down and let us listen to the heartbeat for a while at 154 beats per minute. Dr Reeves came in and talked to me and reassured me that I do everything I'm supposed to, my previous pregnancies have had great outcomes and so will this one. He also said its common when you're dealing with someone else's kid (he calls them kids, even when they're itty bitty in utero) to be more cautious. We are keeping our next appointment on October 29, which will include an ultrasound! K will be coming and will likely have the sonographer write down baby's gender and do a "gender reveal" with her family. I'm also having Mike come with me to this next appointment. I want him to be able to see the doctor again too before the day of delivery.<br />
Yesterday evening I went to a friends house to pick up a pocket doppler which she's letting me borrow. Olivia and I tried it out this morning and I love it!<br />
Today is exactly 16 weeks, less than a month away from halfway!<br />
Baby's heart is pumping about 25 quarts of blood per day, his/her toenails have started growing, and baby will double in weight over the next few weeks.<br />
I'm feeling good, and haven't had any crazy cravings lately, just been on this lemon water kick, with a very high lemon to water ratio! So sour but so good. I of course don't do it too often since I need it to be real lemon. I tried the packaged kind and it is not the same! In fact I'm going to squeeze the other half of the lemon I have left and have some now! Yum!<br />
Thanks everyone for all the support, it's really great having such positive people around me during this!<br />
The avocado picture is from babycenter.com; the other is Olivia helping me with the heartbeat "microphone."<br />
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Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-47182737228558336022012-10-13T08:29:00.001-05:002012-10-13T08:29:09.598-05:00Recent pictureIt seemed like my belly has started growing quite a bit this week, here's a picture from Wednesday (one day shy of 15 weeks)<br />
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Our next appointment is in 3 weeks at 17.5 weeks gestation. We forgot to ask if we will be doing the anatomy ultrasound then, but I'll probably call and check. If I remember correctly, we did Conner's right at 20 weeks. Today (Oct 8) we are 14 weeks and 4 days. OH! Good news, I've been off all meds for a couple of weeks now! Yay! I'm starting to show a little but I think I really just look bloated still. Baby is 3 1/2 inches from head to bottom, about the size of a lemon now, according to babycenter.<br />
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We got to the doctor's office and I started filling out all the wonderful paperwork, then we were called back. The nurse had a ton of medical questions for myself and K. Once the doc came in, he had some more questions for us and we got to discuss some things with him. Then was the fun part- the sonogram! We weren't expecting to do one but since there had been some fluid noted in the last ultrasound he went ahead and did another. The baby had clearly done some growing and developing in the week and half or so since the first ultrasound! He/she was wiggling around and dancing for us. Over all the appointment went well although there were some overwhelming moments. He discussed different invasive tests that we are already certain we aren't going to do. Also talking about the risks involved with a VBAC was a bit scary. He does do them in the right circumstance, and says the risk of uterine rupture is .8%, but when it does happen it can be a very bad situation. I'm not sure where I stand on that now but I think I am more comfortable with a repeat C section than I was before! I just want to do whats best for the baby and myself.<br />
In other news, I've been going to the lab once a week to have my hormone levels checked in order to start weaning me off the meds. Last week I switched from three pills daily of estrogen, down to two. And today I got to go down to one pill daily of estrogen, AND from 1.5mL to 1mL of progesterone injections! yay!! my hips will be so happy with my smaller injection tomorrow! Although strangely I was a little nervous this time when I was told to go down on the meds. I think I've considered them my safety to keeping things going right, but obviously the doctor is reviewing my labs and my body must be taking over the hormones so the artificial ones aren't going to be necessary. So now that I've thought about that, I'm less nervous and super excited to be moving past the meds part of this soon!<br />
Our next appointment will be September 28th, at 13 weeks (yay, second trimester time!)<br />
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Things I've been craving the last couple weeks:<br />Iraqi bread, and now Rancho Grande salsa!!<br />
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TIRED! very tired! Much like the first trimester of my pregnancy with Conner. Could also have something to do with my rambunctious duo!Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-9899229770530560382012-08-20T22:06:00.001-05:002012-08-20T22:11:16.176-05:00Sneak peek!Today Mike and I drove to Frisco to meet K and M for the first ultrasound. We found out there is one healthy little baby growing, and we got to watch baby's heart fluttering on the screen at 170 beats per minute! We were all a little upset about the baby that didn't stick, but we know that God is in control. K and M brought their youngest child to the appointment, and she is so adorable! I can't wait for all our kids to meet, but we'll have to be careful since Olivia knows about the pregnancy while K and M are waiting a while to tell their children. (The one they brought with them today is too young to grasp the situation) It was wonderful seeing K and M and they were so happy to see the healthy growing baby. <br />
I will be weaning off the medications over the next few weeks, and should be done in about a month. I can't wait to be done with those injections! They actually haven't been bad overall but the last few days have been a little rough. Our first regular OB appointment will be next Friday, and K will be able to drive down for this one.<br />
Here is a picture from today's sonogram. Isn't it amazing that this little one has been frozen since 2006, and today is growing, with a heartbeat?! <div class="separator"style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJjwq6B93z4To28hA0TyGOuANfT81zOGT9km51Scu_gIBguN3NdPyZNGI-N4uHkKhrBeoGkLMdOffsoZwmqzeUR-7h_wRuJD7oPcL1CZND77c68YWO03Z0eriN0QFZsJcMdJIZGIwA4rdq/s640/blogger-image-511529705.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjJjwq6B93z4To28hA0TyGOuANfT81zOGT9km51Scu_gIBguN3NdPyZNGI-N4uHkKhrBeoGkLMdOffsoZwmqzeUR-7h_wRuJD7oPcL1CZND77c68YWO03Z0eriN0QFZsJcMdJIZGIwA4rdq/s640/blogger-image-511529705.jpg" /></a></div>Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-42684474448843882342012-07-31T17:35:00.001-05:002012-07-31T17:35:28.217-05:00second betaSunday after church I started feeling REALLY nauseated, hooray! As much as I hate that feeling, its just a good ole symptom of pregnancy! Mike and I grabbed a bite to eat and went to a local resort here on Lake Conroe to spend the night, so I started feeling much better when we got there! The kids stayed with my parents but we definitely want to go back with them sometime too!<br />
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I woke up early Monday morning and drove to the lab to do my second beta test. Generally you'd do the second one two days after the first, but I did three days since it was over a weekend. The nurse called from the clinic Monday afternoon with the results: 754!! I was certainly thinking it was going to be higher after all that nausea, but its a great number! The number should double every 24-48 hours and mine double in a little less than 40 hours. I looked up numbers on a chart that women submit to a website. The median for singleton pregnancies at 18 days past ovulation (I was 13 days past a 5 day transfer, so 13+5=18) is 416, while the median for twins at 18dpo is 809. So my number is a little closer to the twin median! K & I texted throughout the day and she's very excited that we have good numbers, and we are all ready to see that sonogram on August 20th!!<br />
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So far I've had only very mild symptoms of pregnancy, much like my pregnancies with my kids. <br />
Funny story: Olivia caught me slouching the other day and told me that I shouldn't sit like that because the babies don't like it when I do. That's my little bossy-pants! And tonight while playing restaurant she asked if I wanted Dr Pepper, Sprite, or Sweet tea. I acted all sad and said I can't have two of those! She asked "do you have a baby in your belly?" I said yes. She asked "right now?" "yes". "well then you'd better have Sprite!" This girl knows I'm missing my Dr Pepper and sweet tea! <br />
Conner is really too young to know what's going on but I'm curious how he will be as he nears age two closer to the due date. I'm thinking he'll be more interested in hot wheels than anything else haha!Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-234666157806693739.post-5043499506239046052012-07-25T10:18:00.001-05:002012-07-26T12:10:51.908-05:00Big fat positive!So excited to announce I've been testing positive with home pregnancy tests! I got the first very faint line on Saturday at about 4 days past transfer! The lines have continued to get darker and this picture was yesterday's test. Of the seven tests I've taken, all have been positive except the one I took the morning of three days past transfer. (I know, why was I even testing that early?!) K wanted me to tell her when I tested positive so I sent her pictures Sunday morning. Mike thought Saturday's was too faint to tell her. I'm so excited for K and M and now the next step is beta (official hcg test) this Friday! We won't find out til next month if it's one baby or if both stuck around. I'll be going back up to Frisco for that appointment.<br />
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Denise and I ran off to do my morning injection of progesterone (Mike normally does them for me, I don't prefer to do them myself). Not long after that, the nurse called us back! Just K and I went back, everyone else waited out front for us. We donned our wonderful gowns and hats and I was given something to help me relax during the procedure, so I got on the bed and chatted with K while we waited. Soon enough the embryologist came in with pictures of the embies, and filled K in on how well they were doing. She said they looked much like K&M's youngest child (as far as embryo quality goes) so that was great news!</div>
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And here they are up close. They were 5 day old (blastocyst) embies. Aren't they cute?! ;-)</div>
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It was time to go to the procedure room. They wheeled my bed just across the hallway, and got me situated. The ultrasound was shown on a screen hanging above me where K and I could both see. We got to watch the catheter go in and the embryos enter there new temporary home! It was great being able to see the ultrasound! Makes me think of how absolutely amazing God's ways are, especially when it comes to the miracle of life and modern medicine. We have seen His hand over and over again in this situation.</div>
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After transfer, it was off to the hotel for bedrest! It went well, I did get a headache and got sick at night, but other than that, I slept, relaxed, watched TV, read magazines. K came back and checked on me before they headed back out of town. Denise and her daughter kept checking in and bringing me food. After 24 hours of bedrest at the hotel, it was time to head home. Denise drove me back into town, and my sister Lacey came over with my kids and her son. Lacey and Mike were both great about taking over with the kids, I'm so grateful! Today Lacey and I did a couple things with the kids, then tried to go shopping (total fail with 3 kids around naptime!) Mike had me go home and told me he'd stop by the store for me after work. So I've been doing lots of "taking it easy" to help those embies get a head start hopefully! I plan on doing a home pregnancy test sometime over the weekend and/or Monday. K doesn't want to know until its positive, so I don't see the point in testing TOO early even though I'm dying to go test NOW!! </div>Juliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02239438203152865625noreply@blogger.com2